I settled for the hat as a representation of the men from fatherland, in the Eastern part of Nigeria, to remind them to embrace softness. Usually, our fathers are known to constantly ignore their mental well-being in the name being strong - you know how patriarchal standards are here. And even though they tend to be the skeleton of the families, i use the flowers as a reminder for such people to embrace a little amount of softness because they do deserve a break from carrying the burdens of their homes.
